Saturday, December 31, 2011
mini heart attack...
Monday, December 26, 2011
Henri's new toy
Henri walking a video by mdelagrange on Flickr.
A turn towards positive... But first a couple rants
That said there are two rants I absolutely MUST get off my chest before I'm forced, I mean before I take a turn towards the positive...
Mosquitos
Who knew that when the weather cooled off I would get my own family of Mosquitos as roommates? And guess what, they only feast on me. Every morning I wake up with at least one new bite. I'm glad that Henri isn't being attacked but maybe if Maxime was sharing in my misery he would take our situation a little more seriously...
Did you know that Mosquitos just park themselves up on your ceiling all day? I do. Did you know that they pretty much laugh at you from up there? Today I threw a balled up sock at one repeatedly and it just kept flying just a few inches over. It wasn't even scared, he knew he was too high from me.
Did you know that if you don't clean up a dead mosquito right away the little carcass pretty much becomes a permanent fixture on your wall?
These aggressive Mosquitos actually harass you when they are ready for a meal - they buzz around your face by your ears. One night that happened five times so when I went to sleep that night I pulled the covers up over my head to protect myself. After a while I realized I needed to breath so I reluctantly exposed my face. I'm sure you can guess what happened next - I woke up in the morning with a bite just below my eyebrow.
I'm being harassed, I want you to know. These Mosquitos have really gotten into my head - each time I walk into our room (their favorite hangout, just waiting for me) I scan the walls and ceiling to see if there is one who slipped up and decided to perch low enough for me to reach. When they don't, I've resorted to calling them names. Seriously - and then I hear myself and I realize I'm not as sane as I once was.
The Internet isn't very helpful, not providing a cure all for my problem but I did learn that they have survived for millions of years from the arctic to the tropics for a reason - they are freaking resilient!
Noise pollution
In San Francisco we survived the building of a new row house right next to ours. In Chicago my neighbor was renovating right after Henri was born and I had to suffer through that construction throughout the day for months. In addition, we lived near Navy Pier where they set off fireworks two to three times a week. I thought I was pretty used to the noise pollution that comes with living in densely populated areas. How wrong I was. Taiwan takes the cake when it comes to noise pollution that makes you want to scratch your own eyes out and then throw them at people.
The biggest offender? Their blatant abuse of loud speakers.
There are cars that drive slowly up and down the street blasting a message that either advertises what they are selling or promotes some candidate running for election (see below video/picture). Think ice-cream truck without the ice-cream, replace music with Chinese sentence repeated over and over and over...
Garbage trucks don't go door to door here, they park in a central location and blare classical music to let everyone know in a one mile radius that it's time to bring down your trash.
Sometimes you walk by a store and there is some recorded message attempting to very loudly lure you into their store - you look down to see that they have left a loud speaker out on the sidewalk that is looping their pitch.
Everyone says just wait for Chinese New Year... Ugh...
I am officially old because I spend so much time complaining about noise.
Campaign truck
Fw: Nuisance a video by mdelagrange on Flickr.
Campaign motorcade
This candidate apparently rented out a handful of taxis, decorated them with banners and threw in some loud speakers blaring campaign messages and music (yes, it was all overlapping)... I'm just happy it was going down a commercial street and not mine!
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Ancestor day
As I was leaving this morning the family that owns our building was out front burning (fake) money - they were also burning several inscents on a table they set up outside. One of them told me it was ancestors day. You regularly see money burning but I guess today is a bit more special. This is our neighbor's fire left unattended (didn't think I should gawk at my landlords...). Anyway, while my own beliefs don't compel me to make offerings to my deceased ancestors I can appreciate that they do honor theirs in their way.
Rainy day fun (?)
Today I took hen to the mitsukoshi play area for the first time. Its rainy and cold(ish) and we needed a change of scenery. We are regulars at the takashimaya play area near our apartment which is free and has only a few toys in a carpeted area for the kiddos. Well, the play area at mitsukoshi is much more serious. When we pulled up in the stroller the lady at the gate took Henri's temperature, wiped the drool of his face and washed his hands with antiseptic. Then we entered the kiddy fun house and We took a tour. I showed him the slide, he clung to me. I showed him the balloons being blown about by a fan, he clung to me. I planted him down in front of this slow motion merry go round which in the end was his undoing. He stared at it for about a minute before commencing a meltdown that not even the ball pit could remedy. The lady at the gate gave me my $200NT back, even though I didn't ask for it - I guess he needs a bit more time before he can appreciate this crazy place.
Possessed bear
In their attempt to scare small children the good people at mitsukoshi even attached this poor bear to a machine to make it swerve around mindlessly...
First croissant
Henri was given his first croissant the other day... He gave it more of a shot then some of the things I've handed him... But I can't say he immediately took to it. I'm sure his French genes will kick in sooner or later...
Monday, December 19, 2011
8 teeth!
Hen finally broke his fourth tooth on the bottom the other day, making it 8 total!
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This is some kind of motorized bike/trailer thingy which you see around. What makes this one unique is the doll heads on stakes ... Which clearly are a warning to other dolls... Not to.... Mess with his stuff?
Thursday, December 15, 2011
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Henri taking a stroll
Henri at the takashimaya play area playing with a walker (properly) for the first time...
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Happy 9 month birthday, Henri!
I count myself so lucky to have such an incredible son, husband and family. I don’t know if it is the distance or the arrival of my son (or a combination of both) that makes me feel so blessed. I find myself thinking about what great parents I have and how much I love my husband and my son(who we waited so long for). So even though the holiday spirit isn’t all that strong here in Taiwan (not that they don’t have some décor and music going in the stores), it’s pretty strong in my heart. I can’t wait to see everyone back home in the spring of 2012. Merry Christmas!
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Mitsukoshi play area
This department store's (overly pastel) play area is insane. Everything you see is actually in motion - the cylinder is spinning, the little merry-go-round, also spinning... The balloons are being blown around - there is a slide that is clear that has water running through it and a ball pit, as well. Intense...
Dude cleaning streets on scooter
I'm pretty sure he was cutting corners here...
The easy shop....
Interesting choice of name for lingerie shop...
Monday, November 28, 2011
Henri and I
This weekend the family went to the Taipei European School's Christmas Bazaar. Maxime's hotel had a booth there. We sat on the grass and enjoyed a hamburger right off the grill.
Friday, November 25, 2011
Pork Flakes
Yes, you read correctly. I'm only pretending to take Henri's picture here - really I'm wanting to share with you this stand which apparently (or so I was told) sells different types of pork flakes - I have to pass it every time I go to the grocery store and I'm not a fan of its scent.
Borrrrring....
Apprently Hen wasn't all that enthusiastic about the park that day.
Happy Thanksgiving!
A friend was kind enough to offer us a ride which was great because hauling a baby/car seat/hot casserole dish/diaper bag in a taxi was going to be quite challenging. She and her husband showed up a little worse for wear. Their oven had gone out so they were behind schedule and their nearly one-year old had picked up on the stress and was making her unhappiness known. Very loudly. So there I was, wedged between one crying baby (who seems to be crying at me for invading her domain) and my own (who after joining the fun initially by adding his own screams, opted to just stare at the other baby in shock for the duration of the ride) in the backseat with a hot casserole dish on my lap while we sped through Tianmu to get to the thanksgiving feast. Anyone who has been stuck in a car with a screaming baby would know how stressful this can actually be...
Thanksgiving was different with a baby. With Maxime gone I pretty much had my full attention on Henri who was on the move, mouthing every toy he could find and chasing the older babies around who could definitely care less.. I was proud of him - it was late for him but he kept his composure. Until the drive back which was very similar to the drive there, minus the hot dish, but adding Henri's screams.
My friend had a little trick up her sleeve. She turns around in her seat with her cell phone in hand. She finds the ringer settings and goes through each one, playing cell phone ring after cell phone ring. The babies would fixate on the phone while it rang but would start up again when it stopped so she had to hurriedly go from ring to ring... Disco music rings, robotic rings, club music rings... By the time we made it to my place my head was spinning a bit but all in all it was a good time.
A quick visit
Hen loves his auntie - he took to her right off the bat and enjoyed playing with her. The only time he gave her a hard time was when she tried to put him down without his pacifier... Which was pretty traumatic for both if them... My evil side found this kind of funny since I'd been there, done that.
We look forward to seeing Vanessa again when we travel back to the U.S. this Spring.
A Local Wedding
In some aspects the wedding reception (we didn't attend a ceremony) was very similar to weddings I've attended in the past - banquet style set up, the childhood picture presentation, toasts... I have to say this wedding had a bit more... flare... than your typical run of the mill wedding in the States.
When you arrive you are greeted by a gigantic photograph of the bride and groom about the size of a billboard. There is a station where you can have your picture taken which is then super imposed onto a picture with the bride a groom - there are several photos of the happy couple to choose from - from goofy to serious- so your picture won't look exactly like the person next to you. The bride was on the creative side and had a wedding logo which was featured prominently throughout the venue - from the flying screens in the ballroom to the tiny candy jars that were handed out to the guests. The bride changed her wardrobe three times and was a beautiful bride in all her gowns.
One thing that is very different from an American wedding is the gift giving part. You don't buy wedding presents you give money. It must come in a red envelope and you need to choose an amount in a number that is not unlucky. When you arrive you hand over the envelope at a reception desk and they open it to see how much you gave and then they write the amount on a ledger for the world to see.
The meal was 12 courses! Lots of fish I had to pass on - especially the fish head which was placed on our table in the event someone wanted to gouge it's eyes out to consume - and yes, our table had a taker. No wedding cake or dancing - plenty of wine, though.
It was fun - we didn't stay late since we had to get back home to Henri and thankfully he had not woken up in our absence so he didn't even know we were gone (success!).
Sunday, November 20, 2011
Vanessa and Henri
Henri and his Aunt at the National Palace Museum in Taipei.
Monday, November 14, 2011
Our Visitor
The Hen – Making him earn his keep.
Taiwanese Potluck
The Help
Halloween
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Happy 8 Month Birthday!
Happy 8 Month Birthday! a video by mdelagrange on Flickr.
This video showcases some of Henri's major achievements as an 8 month old...
Friday, November 4, 2011
Henri and the oven
I know! I shouldn't let him touch the oven but he looked so cute pulling up on it. He has officially become a (sweet) little trouble maker. Every time I turn around he is headed to forbidden territory. Eating shoes, taking apart his floor tiles, grabbing the cable box...
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Under construction
Monday, October 31, 2011
Friday, October 28, 2011
Henri on the slide
Henri seems to enjoy the slide- We hold his hands as he goes down and he seems to understand what's going on - at the bottom he gets really happy.
Burning money
Some days you notice fires in bins along the sidewalk - I'm told that on certain days the time is ripe for burning fake money as an offering - apparently it can earn you good will and fatten the pockets of your deceased ancestors.
Corn - a menace at the grocery store
So you are perusing the grocery store, keeping your eyes peeled for all things western and you see a huge selection of campbell's products and hone in, only to find that it is only corn. Shelves and shelves of it. This has happened to me three times at various stores and brands. I get excited that maybe finally I can buy a can of del monte green peas only to find three shelves of various types of del monte corn. Seriously...
Getting into trouble
Here's Henri trying to be sneaky about messing with the cable box. Perhaps if he isn't facing it I won't notice...
Pulling up
Henri is starting to pull up more and more. He really enjoyed this roll of carpet until he decided to be afraid of it...
Monday, October 24, 2011
Henri Stats
Henri's crawling skills continue to improve. He is now starting to move from room to room - only to follow me, though, he hasn't started to explore on his own. Sometimes when I leave him alone in a room and he notices he assumes this little angry baby march to where I am. He trudges along very slowly, legs squeaking against the floor with each step, head hanging down, with a tortured face and an angry little cry. Strangely, I think it's the cutest thing. When he gets close he stops, sits down and lifts his elbows so I can scoop him up.
I've been a bit homesick lately. As I'm winding down for the day I'll look at the clock and imagine the day starting for my family and friends in the U.S. Henri is down at 7 p.m. - by then my friends on the East Coast are up and getting ready for work but my friends on the West Coast won't be up for a while. Just thinking about everyone going about their lives 12-15 hours behind me back home makes me sad. I guess the vast difference in time zones makes the distance more real.
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Monday, October 17, 2011
Henri at the park
I took Henri to the park by our apartment today. I brought a little device that blows insane amounts of bubbles because I thought Hen might enjoy that - he did, but not as much as the older kids that were there. I had little people stalking me...
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Getting Settled
I'm starting to get used to the building and the neighborhood. I didn't realize before moving in that our building's underground garage is only accessible by car elevator. So the garage door opens, you drive in, roll down the window and hit the appropriate button, and the elevator first rotates about 45 degrees then lifts you up to the street level. I'm not a fan but I have not allowed my new found fear of car elevators paralyze me... One day our building dog just cruised into the car elevator when Maxime drove in, sat there patiently as it rose to the street and then was off on his merry way.
One aspect of the neighborhood that requires some getting used to are these vehicles that drive around with loud speakers blaring some message in Chinese. They stop every block or so and the same sentence or two is repeated over and over and then they move on. You hear them coming several blocks away so it takes a while to be free of them. Apparently they are trying to lure you out of your house to mainly take something off your hands - they might buy your cardboard boxes or an old computer. Luckily Henri doesn't seem to be bothered by them.
And then there's the grocery shopping. My first trip was a bit challenging - I sat in front of the milk section for several minutes trying to figure out which carton might be low fat. In the end I checked the nutrition facts - I couldn't tell what each number was associated with but I figured lower numbers meant lower fat so that's what I went with - when you buy products with no English description you have no idea if that carton of milk actually says "hormone infused goats milk" or something like that...
Speaking of food, I regularly burn dinner. My gas stove doesn't seem to have a low setting. I even burned the first thing I baked because I didn't realize the temperature settings were in Celsius (big difference)...
It will be awhile before everything is settled but we're getting there...
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Henri crawling...
Henri crawling... a video by mdelagrange on Flickr.
Here is a clip of Henri doing his thing - he hasn't mastered the crawl but he gets around. Things have been really busy lately, hence the lack of postings. We haven't completely settled in yet and poor Maxime has been very sick. I plan to post more soon!
Saturday, October 8, 2011
Happy 7 month birthday Hen!
I'm a couple days late...
This little boy has grown so much since we arrived in Taipei. He now has four teeth and he is starting to crawl - he can actually go a handful of steps now - luckily he is still slow and his range hasn't gotten too big. The apartment is not ready for a fully mobile baby, yet!
Henri's new high chair
Henri is now taking his meals in a high chair instead of the bumbo we were using at the hotel. He seems to like his new little perch. He really likes chewing on the tray.